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I had to do some soul-searching to figure out who I was in terms of my sexuality. Neither one of us were out but we were hanging out at his house and wrestling around like teenagers do. I was closeted into my 20s, until my girlfriend coaxed me into accepting the part of me that liked men.

Most of my family did great with hearing the truth about my sexuality. In an effort to shed light on the bright and dark sides of being true to yourself about being attracted to the same sex, LEVEL spoke with eight black men of color to share their coming out journey.

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Top 10 gay Black actors who are redefining representation in Hollywood. He was the running back on our school's football team. The next morning he asked if [me being gay] was [his fault]. The best part was feeling free and no longer holding in a secret.

After that I remained closeted until I knew deep inside that I was gay but had never really told anyone. While in college, I eventually told various family members in stages until I was completely free and open. I used to walk around the hallway like a little baddie when he came to pick me up from my locker to show me around the school.

That is unless your coming-of-age era coincides with internal struggles around coming out, which opens up a whole new set of emotional challenges. Everyone gay my life at that time knew I was gay except my family. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders.

He became one of my best friends and the first person I ever actually came out to. One thing led to another and we started fooling black. That lasted until I could no longer deny that I had this deep unexplored desire to be with the same-sex.

You have to decide when and how to come out to the various circles in your life—school, family, friends, workplace, etc. This is a playlist curated by Penjot Media Group, an LA-based Black, LGBTQ-Owned production company that elevates underrepresented voices in Film & Televisio.

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Explore our list of 30 must-watch Black LGBTQ+ movies featuring queer characters in leading or supporting roles. I knew I wanted to marry a guy when I met my straight high school crush. At the time, he saw homosexuality and masculinity as mutually exclusive, and he esteemed masculinity so much that any threat to that concept was repulsive to him.

My father is an alpha male and needed some time to process the news. In fact, I ended up in a relationship with my female best friend at the time.